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The heartbeat is a universal symbol of life.  With each beat it screams, “I’m alive”, “I’m alive”, “I’m alive” — the reaffirmation that you’re still alive is just a heartbeat away.

It’s the silence between the notes that creates the music, without silence, we wouldn’t be able to hang on to every note, to every word.

Music without silence would sound like a bunch of garbled noise that never ends.

Likewise, it’s the choices we make from heartbeat to heartbeat that paint the picture of our lives. Read more…

The 6th Love Language – The Approval of Others

I finally read a book by Dr Gary Chapman called “The 5 Love Languages” first published in 1995, 19 years later the advice in the book still rings true for the most part but because the way humans interact on a daily basis has changed substantially since that time, the book is without doubt lacking in some things for modern times.

After applying some of the things in this book and seeing some success I realized there was something missing to the puzzle that wasn’t talked about in the book. From some deep thinking I realized there are more than 5 Love Languages, I don’t know how many more there may be, but I want to introduce you to a 6th Love Language that doesn’t fit into the other 5. Read more…

The Meaning of Stay With Me by Sam Smith

I don’t believe it was necessarily the song or its lyrics that made this song popular, but rather, the impressive voice of Sam Smith. There are 6 pieces of this song and 4 of them are the Chorus, while the lyrics are few, the impact of this song is massive.

The song dwells on the feelings, wants, and desires that can emerge from having a one night stand. If you’ve been there you can feel the song deep down inside. If you haven’t been there you can only imagine what it’s like to go from a very serious high to a very serious low upon realization that it isn’t going to last. Read more…

The Meaning of Shake It Off by Taylor Swift

If any song ever expressed the “I don’t care what others think attitude” this is the song that does it. While I’m not particularly a Taylor Swift fan I think she did a really good job of moving away from the realm of bad breakups and fantasy love stories that trumpeted as the theme of most of her other material.

When I first started paying attention to this song and it’s meaning it was because of the 2014 VMA performance. Until that point I had just passed this song off as so happy go lucky radio song that would have short term appeal to the masses for a quick buck or two.

After the VMA performance, reading the lyrics, and watching the visual representation in her music video; I had a change of heart. Read more…

2014 Beyonce VMA Acceptance Speech, “I’m so full”

I don’t normally watch the VMAs or anything on TV for that matter except football but I got talked into watching the 2014 VMAs by my girlfriend.

At the end of the show, Beyonce was presented the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award, and the first things out of her mouth quickly separated her from all of the other performers I had ever watched accept an award.

Everybody wants to go up there and take credit for their hard work. They start off and end by thanking a list of people including the fans, producers, and other special people in their life. They are grateful, thankful, blessed, and many more things but never have I heard anyone start off their speech by simply saying, “I’m so full”. Read more…

Leave That Caterpillar Alone

You’ve found the perfect girl or the perfect guy, and they are the one you want to spend forever with, except for one small thing. This itty bitty small thing that you don’t like about them and you wish you could change. That itty bitty small thing that is an itty bitty small thing to you but is actually a core component of your perfect person. It is probably what attracted you to them in the first place.

Maybe they like to go bar hopping. Maybe they like to go clubbing or party. Maybe they do drugs or have other bad habits. Maybe they workout too much and have bigger muscles than you. Maybe they are too religious for you. Maybe they have a lot of friends of the opposite sex (maybe you were one of them and that’s how they met you). Read more…

Love, Children, and Marriage – Your Erroneous Zones

The following post is a long excerpt written by Dr Wayne Dyer from his book Your Erroneous Zones and I do not take credit for any of it.  You can support this author by purchasing your own copy of his works by clicking the book below.



“In any relationship in which two people become one, the end result is two half people.”

Leaving the psychological nest is one of life’s difficult chores.  The dependency viper intrudes in life in many, many ways, and routing it entirely is made more difficult by the numerous people who benefit from another’s psychological dependency.

Psychological independence means total freedom from all obligatory relationships, and an absence of other-directed behavior.  It means being free from having to do something you would not otherwise choose, were the relationship not to exist.  The nest-leaving business is especially difficult because our society teaches us to fulfill certain expectations in special relationships, which include parents, children, authority figures and loved ones. Read more…

Boredom is Actually a Form of Depression

“Life is never boring but some people choose to be bored.

The concept of of boredom entails an inability to use up present moments in a personally fulfilling way. Boredom is a choice; something you visit upon yourself, and it is another of those self-defeating items that you can eliminate from your life.

When you procrastinate, you use your present moments doing nothing, as an alternative to doing anything.

Doing nothing leads to boredom. Read more…

A Suicidal State of Mind – Robin Williams Last Thoughts

The decision to kill yourself does not have to be a long ordeal, sometimes the decision to die and execution of that decision are made within minutes of each other. To take your own life, the closer those two things are, the more likely you are to go through with it.

There are many kinds of suicides and attempts for many different reasons. There are many types of mental illnesses or drugs that can lead you to death faster. Depression is often blamed for most suicides. Read more…

Ladies, Men Do Stupid Things

Us men do stupid things.

We end up destroying a marriage or serious relationship by blaming the other person for problems with ourselves, which causes us to take actions that cause more problems, and eventually a breakdown in the relationship.

We carry on under the notion that we have been wronged or screwed over…until we meet someone new and get what we think is further confirmation that we weren’t the problem all along, after all, how could it be us when we are capable of having such exciting and perfect relationships. Read more…

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